10. She makes plans with you
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If she’s blushing, there’s a high likelihood she’s attracted to you. Did you know blushing is one of the signs of attraction, and that it’s the body’s way of mimicking the effect of an orgasm as a signal to a potential mate? This is an unconscious thing a girl (with long enough hair, so this doesn’t work with Annie Lennox types) will do when she’s absorbed and captivated. So if your terrible puns or corny dad jokes are getting her to laugh like the ghost of Richard Pryor just floated through the window, it’s a very encouraging sign indeed.
Listen, when a girl hangs on to your every word and makes you feel that your stories are so engaging and exciting even if you are rambling on, you know that it is highly likely that she is attracted to you. When a girl shuts off her girl talk to give her undivided attention to you whenever you appear, that’s just fantastic. If she thinks you’re hot, she will probably smile when you start talking and laugh at your jokes because she actually thinks they’re funny, but don’t mistake good manners for her wanting to get to know you better.
She wants to be closer to you at all times and that is a sure sign that you impress her. When she is having a conversation with friends and she sees you approaching or in a nearby place, she will break from her friends and come to where you are.
You don’t need to talk to her about how you feel. Because the two of you already talk a lot, I’m confident she will be happy to either respond with enthusiasm or tell you she’s not interested in going out. So I think she’s happy with the guy she’s with now and you should be considering finding a different girl. The girl should figure that out for herself by talking with him and seeing if they get on well together. I’m guessing he likes dancing and he thinks the girl is okay.
- She might just be shy, but she’s probably a bit extra self-conscious around you because she likes you.
- You make her feel good, and she wants to impress you with her glowing smile.
- – On the other hand, if she is looking at her phone when you’re talking one-on-one or she seems distracted, then she may not be that into you.
- Studies have shown that blinking more than average can be a sign of attraction.
- When a girl gives you her full attention and focuses solely on you, that’s a good signal that she’s really interested in making a good impression on you.
Noticing several of these signs is clearly very helpful when you are trying to figure out if a girl likes you as more than just friends, but the picture grows ever clearer the more you see these things repeated. Big, showy gestures have their place (we’re never going to complain if a guy sweeps us off to Paris on a mini-break…), but when a girl wants to show that she likes someone, it’ll be through the little details rather than anything grand. If she is holding a drink, for example, and gently stirring it whilst maintaining eye contact with you, it’s more likely to be a sign that she is relaxed and open to you as a person. And she won’t just listen to reply like many people do in casual conversation, her responses will be thoughtful, show interest, and make you feel listened to. Perhaps not straight away, but as you get to know each other and feel more comfortable talking about things, she may direct the conversation to topics that show a level of intimacy or vulnerability.
A girl can like a guy in many different ways, in a manner of ‘degrees’ if you like. Imagine what a hassle it would be to have a long-term relationship with a girl who is so unpredictable. When a girl gives you her full attention and focuses solely on you, that’s a good signal that she’s really interested in making a good impression on you. Does she talk about a relationship she had in the past, making it clear that it ended and she is feeling lonely now?
When a girl is with someone she likes, she literally glows. If they deliberately encourage you or give you time to be alone with her, then they not only like you, but they also know she likes you. But if she likes you, she will tell you a definite date or time to meet you again. But if a girl allows you into her physical or non-physical “space,” then she definitely likes you.
Live smarter, look better, and live your life to the absolute fullest. And asking you to teach her archery or how to code is a great way of indicating that she’d like to spend more time together without explicitly asking for a date. But if you’re sitting at a table, and a woman says something along the lines, “Oh, Brett, you’re such a sweetheart” and briefly squeezes your arm, that’s a pretty clear giveaway that she’s interested.
When a girl makes a point of making sure you know she thinks you are funny, whether you are or not, that’s just magical. If a girl makes herself available and is engaged with whatever you are saying or doing, you’ve got a good solid signal she has all eyes on you. FACT – Today there are just too many technology avenues of connection that totally confuse both men and women when you are trying to find out whether someone is interested in you or not. There’s “hush-hush” signs and pretty straight up signals that a girl has a crush on you and oodles in between.